Observing Proper Japanese Etiquette

In the west, many people live by the adage “everything is bigger in America.” This idea does not only apply to material possessions, but also social interactions and daily interactions. Americans are often loud and expressive, and very literal. In Japan, however, the attitude is much the opposite. Japanese culture emphasizes subtlety and modesty, and highly regards those who follow this mindset.

Hygiene

In Japan, blowing one’s nose is a sign of disrespect. Sniffling is considered more socially acceptable.

When entering the home of another, it is important to leave your shoes in the genkan, or entranceway. Wearing dirty shoes into a home suggests you intend to soil their carpet or flooring. Additionally, toilet slippers should be used when entering a household bathroom.

Eating and Drinking

Slurping noodles is accepted and even sometimes encouraged. Also, chopstick etiquette is important. Sticking your eating utensils upright in a bowl of rice, or passing food between chopsticks, is considered offensive. Both practices have ties to Japanese funeral rights, and performing them might seem out of place.

Communication

Do not look the person in the eyes when shaking hands. Bowing is generally done to show respect, though not required. Visitors should remember to refrain from sitting cross-legged, and to never point at people. Pointing can be misconstrued as a threatening gesture.