Weddings are stressful enough without worrying if you’ve complied with all the customs that tradition says you should. We say it’s your day; do what makes you happy! Here are some classic wedding traditions that you should feel comfortable skipping.
Matching bridesmaid dresses
Unless your bridesmaids are all identical sisters, odds are someone isn’t going to like the shade or cut you choose for them. Avoid the unnecessary headache by letting them choose for themselves. You could give them guidelines (pick a color or a style) and let them go from there. Everyone wins.
Your bridesmaids must be women
Dispense with the gender classification and let your bridesmaids be what they are supposed to be: your best friends and greatest supporters, be that bridesman or groomswoman.
Seating arrangements
Marriage is about unity; instead of separating the families, mix things up a bit! Also, you may consider changing the whole idea of audience seating altogether; consider seating your guests in a complete circle around the altar (if possible).
The ring
You may find that there is even more symbolism in an alternative option than the standard three-month-salary engagement ring (plus wedding ring). Whether it is a family heirloom, QALO band (https://www.trazeetravel.com/weddings/qalo-silicone-wedding-rings.php) or something that means something to your relationship, considering an alternative to a diamond ring is a good way to keep the costs of your wedding down.
Tiered wedding cake
No matter how much you spend, the traditional tiered wedding cake almost always looks better than it tastes. Save money and hassle, and impress your guests, by considering an alternative like cupcakes or cookies.
If you keep a wary eye open while you’re planning your wedding, you may find a lot more traditions that you want to tweak or skip altogether; remember, it’s your day.
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